I’m Trying to Write Code, but Rebecca Won’t Stop Talking About Her Feelings

An appreciation post for women in the office November 10, 2021 “I’m trying to write code, but Rebecca won’t stop talking about her feelings.” This is what a guy at work said (as a joke) a couple of years ago when I was talking about this or that with my team. I was probably talkingContinue reading “I’m Trying to Write Code, but Rebecca Won’t Stop Talking About Her Feelings”

I’m Sorry I Don’t Speak Banjo

November 9, 2021 My coworkers think my Kentucky-isms are hilarious. I can’t remember the exact context of the conversation, but my coworker, Paul once overheard me chatting with our boss (Frank from the previous post). When fellow Kentucky native, Frank left the room, Paul said “I’m sorry I don’t speak banjo – what were youContinue reading “I’m Sorry I Don’t Speak Banjo”

“Is My House On Fire?” and Other Concerns

November 6, 2021 I fell asleep with my window open last night and woke in the middle of the night to the smell of smoke. My clever brain told me that the smell was the familiar scent of cigar smoke, probably coming from my neighbor’s balcony or someone smoking on their front stoop. My triggeredContinue reading ““Is My House On Fire?” and Other Concerns”

Notes on Self-Esteem and Gratefulness

November 1, 2021 When I met with my new therapist for the first time a few weeks ago, one of the first questions she asked me was “On a scale of 1 to 10, how would you rate your self-esteem?” My knee-jerk response to this was “Well…it depends on what room I’m in.” I wentContinue reading “Notes on Self-Esteem and Gratefulness”

An Ode to a Maudie Dog

October 27, 2021 Miss Maudie Atkinson is a secondary character from the novel To Kill a Mockingbird. She lives across the street from the protagonists of the book, the Finch family – Atticus, Jem and Scout. The book chronicles the adventures of 5-year-old Scout and her older brother, Jem -two rambunctious, imaginative children who liveContinue reading “An Ode to a Maudie Dog”

Do You Wanna See Something Really Scary?

October 18, 2021 My 8th grade Arts and Humanities teacher, an eccentric lady named Ms. Williams, was purely luminescent – that’s the best way to describe her. She lit up every room she was in with her energy and quirky expressive style. When I think back on the lessons from my school years that IContinue reading “Do You Wanna See Something Really Scary?”

Halloween Special: The Haunting of Hill House

October 14, 2021 I bought a copy of Shirley Jackson’s The Haunting of Hill House at a used book store several months ago.  I set it aside to read in the spookiest of months, October.  The other book I set aside for this month was a re-read of Mary Shelley’s Frankenstein.  I am delighted that both books IContinue reading “Halloween Special: The Haunting of Hill House”

She’s Short and Skinny but She’s Strong

Her first baby come out sideways. She didn’t scream or nothin’. October 11, 2021 I never felt as frustrated with my own upper body strength (or lack thereof) than I did when I moved into my house. I was blessed with enough disposable income to hire some guys to come and move my furniture forContinue reading “She’s Short and Skinny but She’s Strong”